Consistent Me

Let’s skip the “new year, new me” energy, shall we? It’s tired. Every January, folks try to morph into some brand-new version of themselves overnight like we’re all caterpillars out here on a time crunch. Newsflash: You don’t need a rebrand just because the calendar flipped. 🌟

This year, I’m doubling down on what makes me, me. Call it “same me, but even better.” Here are some truths I’m holding onto, and maybe they’ll hit for you too: ✨

  1. Keep What’s Working
    Not everything needs to be tossed out like stale Christmas cookies. If you’ve got habits, routines, or even quirks that work for you, lean in. Maybe you’ve been consistent with morning walks, reading before bed, or taking a little extra time to slay your edges. Keep that. Build on it. Growth doesn’t always mean starting from scratch. 💪

  2. Set Boundaries, Not Just Goals
    We’re all about vision boards and affirmations, but let’s be real: your peace deserves as much protection as your dreams do. This year, I’m saying “no” more often—and not just to stuff I don’t want to do, but to anything that messes with my energy. The vibe? Unbothered and thriving. 🛑

  3. Celebrate the Small Wins
    Why wait for a promotion, a major milestone, or a new boo to pop bottles? Life’s too short not to clap for yourself, even for the little stuff. You drank water today? You did the dishes? You didn’t snooze your alarm? Go off, queen. Every step counts. 👏

  4. Stay Curious
    Instead of feeling the pressure to “find yourself,” try exploring the you that’s already here. What do you actually enjoy? What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but never made time for? A dance class? Pottery? Finally learning how to do a proper twist-out? The more you discover, the more you’ll grow. 🌱

  5. Be Grateful for Your Own Magic
    Comparison is the thief of joy, and social media is the perfect getaway car. Don’t get caught up in someone else’s highlight reel. Instead, take a moment to appreciate all the dope things about yourself. Your laugh. Your hustle. Your ability to keep it together (or not) when life gets messy. You’re the blueprint. ✨


The truth is, you don’t need to reinvent yourself to live your best life. Sometimes, being true to who you already are is the real flex. So this year, I’m not trying to be “new and improved.” I’m just committed to being real—and that’s more than enough. 💖

What about you? How are you staying true to yourself this year? Let’s talk about it in the comments! 🎤


My Favorite Daily Essentials

Here’s a little extra inspiration - some of my fav small touches that help me stay on track:

  • Planning Materials: I swear by the sleek and functional planners from Cloth and Paper. They’re my secret weapon for staying organized and focused.
  • Candles for Vibes: Nothing sets the mood like a good candle. My go-tos are Forvr Mood and Love Ground Candle Co. Whether you need to unwind or spark some creativity, these are a must.
  • Headphones to Focus: I would be lying if I said I enjoy working in silence - my go-to tools? Depends! I love the integration of Apple Airpods Max but I also love the sound and aesthetics and color options from these Bowers and Wilkins set. Somehow, someway these strange ones are trending with the kids.

What are the tools or little luxuries that help you stay true to yourself? Let’s share the love!